A Study in Passive-Aggressive Self-Defense

The football publication is curiously uninspiring, yet strangely compelling. Its title raises questions. The Dear England title currently is used by a successful play, an upcoming TV show, and a national address penned by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This iteration of Dear England is not formally related to those. It exists as an oddity in the expanding Dear England universe, a book about guidance: a traditionally uninspiring elite football manager trope that Southgate sticks to doggedly, relying on the words “leader”, “leading” or “management” at least 500 times across 336 pages.

Themes Posed

“What defines a leader? What do leaders do? And what do leaders know?” the author questions at the outset, establishing his position, but choosing not to ask “Why are leaders?”, topics presumably set aside for a future volume.

Otherwise, this book features a book-shaped hole throughout. It’s an exercise in passive-aggressive self-defense, in coming close without actually saying the underlying truth, hopping skillfully from lingering grievance to unscabbed wound across a assortment of data visualizations, corporate platitudes and discussions about 16th-century statesmen.

Reading Experience

Reading it is like listening to your family members having a controlled but profoundly personal debate in the nearby area while you’re striving to pay attention on a professional workshop named “Numerous Justifications for My Ultimate Victory”. But it is also impossible to put down, as Southgate keeps coming close to a topic you genuinely want to learn about, before suddenly veering away.

Disclosures

There are inevitably controversial revelations in publications like these, such is the rapt obsession with England managerdom. The most striking instances are: Southgate resolved he was certainly going to quit as England manager after fans threw beer glasses at him at the European Championship; he came very close to abandoning the game at the interval against Bulgaria in 2019 after his squad members were targeted with slurs; he invented the approach of dedicated restart experts and all teams in the Premier League is now adopting his methods; he has now lost his enthusiasm for football, a startling confession casually mentioned in a short passage at the final part.

Guiding England through a era of rage, optimism, turmoil and lockdown was a grueling experience. The wounds are clearly still fresh.

Commonplace Material

Otherwise, the content is overrun with an computer-generated linguistic mush of commonplace management talk. Review editions of this book were shared with journalists under secrecy pacts prior to release, likely out of fear someone might leak that “challenging discussions can, by their very essence, be challenging”, that you should always look before you leap, that guidance takes place where change meets compassion.

Genuine Feeling

Readers will find nonetheless genuine sentiment present. Managing England through a time of fury, aspiration, political ferment and pandemic restrictions was a brutal experience. The bruises are evidently still unhealed, albeit presented in a terminology-heavy reimagining of the standard coach story: why I was actually right about each issue all along.

Detailed Instances

The book’s introductory section, presented as thrilling accounts of the championship match of the tournament, is entirely focused on how effective the manager in fact was at substitutes (the primary criticism of Southgate revolving around he wasn’t good at substitutes). Later, he goes into extensive analysis about how he oversaw the deciding game of 2021 perfectly – notably the losing tiebreaker – because he followed a established procedure, which must mean that throwing on youthful talents at the last moment to take the biggest kick of their existence was sensible and accurate.

That approach was validated by a successful shootout against the Swiss team at a later tournament after a match where England spent the entire match looking as if they were trying to don a sweater the inside out. “The control we exerted in that penalty decider was absolutely exciting,” Southgate writes, while likening the showing to elite military units killing Osama bin Laden. Goodness.

Avoided Revelations

On the occasions we do get close to a insight, the manager backs away from naming names or providing the juice. We hear there were difficult England individuals who insisted on more focus, possibly because they were spoilt during the beginning of their careers. But as you anticipate eagerly, the author is quickly veering off into an area titled The Culture Code, which states that rather than a grouping of characteristics or principles, team environment is in fact an element that is developed by, unfortunately, please, that’s sufficient.

Highlights

Included in the stronger parts are when he writes about the piecemeal nature of building resilience in the next generation, or how he tried to articulate Englishness more coherently and more helpfully than any other figure in the limelight. The standout section, there is a really gripping narrative of that traumatic evening in the Bulgarian capital where England’s African heritage squad members were viciously abused (and subsequently supported robustly by their leader).

Genuine Ending

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Vicki Ayala
Vicki Ayala

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